What if you had everything figured out?
Do we ever get to this place? Yes and no. Yes, because if we go after our goals and we have a plan and we feel we are winning, we have the feeling that we have things figured out for right now.
What if you had everything figured out?
Do we ever get to this place? Yes and no. Yes, because if we go after our goals and we have a plan and we feel we are winning, we have the feeling that we have things figured out for right now. Will they change in future? Guaranteed. Even when we think we are on the right track, we gain momentum, we get ahead and then the set of rules you had to get to that point have to change in order to get us further.
Life will constantly challenge you. One of my clients had an important meeting and he was well prepped. However, he accounted real resistance and all his preparation fell on deaf ears. Yet his goal is of such a nature that he will not give up. He encountered an obstacle for which his prep was no match. Was the prep in vain? Absolutely not. It is still valid and he can use it further down the line. He has to play the long game and in the end he will win.
You have to keep on having to figure things out.
If you think your life is all about getting to the point where things will be easy, that you will know what’s up, let me burst your bubble, not going to happen. If you can manage your mind and know that life is 50/50 you won’t let things derail you and you will actually start enjoying the process of your life.
This is why life coaching is gold.
Each person wants different things and a handful of people actually know, not without mistakes mind you, how to make these things happen. For the rest of us, we spend most of our lives floating, trying different things and not getting anywhere. Life coaching helps you narrow down exactly what you want and how to get there. Even then you are going to encounter resistance, and not necessarily from others, most of us are our own worst enemy.
We want to lose the weight, yet we keep eating. We want to make money, yet we keep spending on that credit card. We want to have great relationships, yet we are not willing to put in the work. Then we look at the people who do all these things and think they are so lucky.
Luck has nothing to do with it.
They work at it, they work on their minds, they overcome obstacles. And yes, there is a certain amount of flow that happens when people are on the right track, but that only happens when you are moving. We have all experienced it, even those that tend to give up before they reach their goal.
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Hi, I’m Antoinette Porter, your hostess at Live Life Inspired where we will explore what is possible in your life. A life you can look back on and say, “Wow!! I did that!”
So a life coach helps you figure out what you want, how to get there and also helps you get over yourself. You are not unique here, everyone has the same doubts and fears, but are you willing to do the work to get over these fears and doubts and do the things anyway?
Why do we think that we should just automatically know what to do, how to navigate obstacles and move forward anyway? We are never taught this. Sure, we watch people and if you are lucky enough to have someone in your life to show you the ropes, great.
Winging it
Most of us don’t and we just wing it. But hiring someone, a life coach, who could help you save so much time and money, by helping you avoid pitfalls and costly mistakes. Someone who shows you your strengths and is your biggest cheerleader. You may then be forgiven if you said you have things figured out.
Having things figured out may look like you being so comfortable in your own skin, regardless of you being overweight. Why? Because you have a plan and you are executing it, you are doing all the right things and you have someone supporting you. Having things figured out could look like you having a vision and working towards it, perhaps not knowing the exact steps to getting there, but trusting that the answers will reveal themselves as you progress.
Do you have things figured out or do you need some help in getting there? Come and chat to me on hello@lliautism.net
Till next week.
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